KRIS AQUINO DESPERATELY TRIES TO HAND OVER BIMBY TO JAMES YAP, BUT THE FATHER REFUSES – WHAT IS THE HIDDEN TRUTH?

For years, the public has been a silent witness to the complicated and sometimes bitter history between Queen of All Media Kris Aquino and her ex-husband, basketball star James Yap. Their son, Bimby, has grown up under the media spotlight, with every milestone, school event, and even casual appearance becoming instant headlines. But this time, the drama has escalated to an unexpected, and for many, shocking twist: reports claim Kris has been trying to entrust Bimby to James—and James allegedly said no.

The burning question that now dominates social media: Why would a father refuse to take his own son? And perhaps more intriguing—why is Kris suddenly pushing for it?

THE HISTORY NOBODY FORGETS

Kris and James’s marriage in 2005 was nothing short of a national spectacle. She, the controversial and charismatic TV personality, and he, the charming PBA star at the height of his career, seemed like the perfect match. But just like a teleserye with too many plot twists, their relationship quickly spiraled into separation and eventual annulment in 2012.

Since then, Bimby has been raised almost entirely by Kris, with James making only occasional appearances in his life—most of which were documented in the press, sometimes ending in awkward interviews where Kris openly admitted her frustrations over his lack of involvement.

THE TURNING POINT: WHY NOW?

Sources close to Kris claim that this sudden move is tied to her deteriorating health. For months, Kris has been battling a series of autoimmune diseases that have left her physically weak and emotionally drained. In recent interviews, she admitted that she’s worried about what might happen to her sons—Bimby and her eldest, Josh—if her condition worsens.

But according to these sources, it’s not just about health. One insider reveals:

“Kris is preparing for all possibilities. She wants to make sure Bimby has a stable guardian. Despite their history, James is still his father, and biologically, he has every right to care for his son if anything happens to Kris.”

JAMES’S ALLEGED REFUSAL

While Kris’s side seems straightforward—mother wanting her son to be with his father—the reported refusal from James Yap is where things get murky. An entertainment columnist who claims to have spoken to someone from James’s camp dropped this bombshell:

“James believes Bimby may not want to live with him. Over the years, Bimby has been vocal about being more comfortable with his mom. James feels forcing the situation could only cause more strain.”

But that’s just the official story. Rumors swirling in showbiz circles suggest deeper issues: strained communication, differences in parenting styles, and even fear of public backlash if James suddenly becomes more involved now, after years of perceived absence.

SOCIAL MEDIA EXPLOSION

When the news broke, social media lit up with strong opinions.

On Facebook, one fan wrote:

“Kahit anong away nila dati, kung anak mo ’yan, dapat tatanggapin mo.”
(No matter the past fights, if that’s your child, you should accept him.)

Meanwhile, on Twitter (now X), others defended James:

“We don’t know what happens behind closed doors. Maybe it’s Bimby who doesn’t want this arrangement.”

And then there were the conspiracy theorists, speculating that this was all part of a larger publicity move ahead of a new TV comeback for Kris.

THE PUBLIC IMAGE BATTLE

Kris Aquino is no stranger to public scrutiny. Every move she makes is either dissected or celebrated, depending on which side of the fandom you’re on. This time, however, the narrative seems more divided than ever.

Critics accuse Kris of playing the victim card yet again, putting James in an unfavorable light by leaking this information. Others argue that she’s simply a mother trying to secure her child’s future, regardless of past grievances.

James, on the other hand, has remained eerily silent on the matter—neither confirming nor denying the reports. His Instagram remains filled with basketball updates and glimpses into his life abroad, but no direct reference to Kris or Bimby.

BIMBY IN THE MIDDLE

Perhaps the most overlooked person in this entire drama is Bimby himself. Now a teenager, he’s grown up with a personality as outspoken as his mother’s. In past interviews, Bimby has spoken candidly about his loyalty to Kris, often defending her in public spats.

But those same interviews have also revealed his awkwardness when talking about his father. Whether that awkwardness comes from lack of time spent together, media pressure, or personal choice, it’s clear that Bimby’s relationship with James is far from the picture-perfect father-son bond people expect.

IS THIS REALLY ABOUT LOVE… OR CONTROL?

Some showbiz insiders suggest that Kris’s move could also be about control over the narrative. By publicly offering Bimby to James and highlighting his refusal, Kris could be positioning herself as the ever-sacrificing mother, while subtly reinforcing the image of James as absent.

However, others believe this is genuinely about letting go—a recognition from Kris that she may not always be around, and that a father’s role, no matter how late, is still important.

WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?

Will James change his mind? Will Kris make another public appeal? And perhaps most importantly—will Bimby himself speak out on what he wants? The answers remain uncertain, but one thing is sure: the saga of Kris Aquino and James Yap has just added another dramatic chapter that will be dissected in talk shows, gossip blogs, and dinner table conversations for weeks.

FINAL THOUGHTS

This situation is more than just celebrity drama—it’s a glimpse into the messy, emotional realities of co-parenting after separation, especially when fame, health struggles, and public opinion are all in the mix. For Kris, the battle is not only about her health but also about securing her son’s future. For James, it might be about protecting a fragile relationship from being forced into the spotlight yet again.

And for the public? It’s yet another reminder that in the world of Philippine showbiz, real life can be even more dramatic than the movies.