THE SECRET STRENGTH OF PBBM: The Last Birthday Message from FEM
In the midst of endless criticisms and political challenges, one question continues to linger on the minds of Filipinos: What keeps President Ferdinand “Bongbong” Marcos Jr. (PBBM) so unwavering? How does he remain composed, always with a calm demeanor and a smile, even in the face of overwhelming attacks? The answers lie not only in his character but also in a deeply personal legacy that continues to guide him today.
A remarkable story has surfaced that explains the source of PBBM’s resilience—one that takes us back to a hidden treasure of family history, a message from his father, the late President Ferdinand E. Marcos Sr. (FEM), that has remained a guiding force in his life. This heartfelt message, delivered in the final days of his father’s presidency, continues to fuel PBBM’s resolve in navigating the stormy waters of Philippine politics.
The Birthday Message: A Letter That Continues to Inspire
The story of the birthday letter from FEM to his son, Bongbong, has long been a private matter, only shared with a few close friends and family members. It was first revealed in a 2022 gathering in Ilocos Norte, a place rich in Marcos family history, where the secret letter was mentioned by one of the family’s closest friends. According to sources close to the Marcos family, the letter arrived just weeks before the Marcos family was forced into exile in 1986, a time when the political landscape in the Philippines was crumbling under the weight of revolution and widespread protests.
On the eve of Bongbong’s 28th birthday, a sealed envelope arrived with his father’s signature, and inside was a message that would shape the course of his life:
“Son, the day will come when you will face the same storms that came my way. Do not seek the mercy of the people, seek the truth. If you know you are on the side of the nation, never bow down, even if you stand alone.”
The Enduring Power of FEM’s Words
Those who were close to PBBM recount how, throughout the years, he would often turn to this letter in times of crisis, particularly during moments when he felt the weight of the nation’s judgment. One such instance occurred in the early days of his presidency, when opposition forces and critics were relentless in their attacks against him. According to a trusted confidant, the president was seen sitting alone in his office, quietly reflecting, holding the aged letter in his hands. “This is my father’s letter,” he said, as if the weight of the message had once again recharged his spirit.
This letter was more than just a father’s words; it was a prophetic message that guided PBBM through the fiercest of political storms. Despite the pressing criticism, PBBM remained resolute—his ability to stay calm under fire perhaps stemming from this very piece of family history, a quiet reminder that leadership is not about popularity, but about truth, duty, and unyielding strength.
The Burden of the Marcos Name: A Legacy of Strength
Being a Marcos is no easy feat. PBBM carries with him not just the family name, but also the legacy of his father’s reign, which was marred by accusations of corruption, martial law, and political turmoil. For many, his last name has become synonymous with controversy and dictatorship, yet for Bongbong, it is a constant reminder of the strength and discipline instilled by his father.
Growing up in the Marcos family, Bongbong was not shielded from the harsh realities of public life. He witnessed firsthand the consequences of his father’s rule, including the ouster from Malacañang and the long years spent in exile. However, it was also during this time that FEM instilled in him the values of resilience and self-reliance. According to one of PBBM’s siblings, “Living as a Marcos is never easy, but Bongbong always remains composed. He would often say, ‘I know who I am. I don’t need to prove it to anyone.’”
The teachings from his father and mother, Imelda Marcos, have left an indelible mark on PBBM, shaping him into the leader he is today. His calmness and self-confidence, even in the face of adversity, are clear reflections of the guidance he received as a young man. Despite the weight of his name, PBBM seems determined to chart his own path forward.
A Message from the Past: “True Strength Lies in Quiet Resolve”
The letter from FEM, however, was not just a fatherly note—it was also a prophecy. One of the most striking parts of the letter reads:
“If you ever return to the Palace, remember this: the true strength of a leader does not lie in the applause of supporters but in the quiet conviction to stand firm amidst the mockery.”
These words are particularly poignant given the current political climate in the Philippines. Since assuming office, PBBM has faced numerous challenges—from economic crises to personal attacks. Yet, despite the relentless criticisms, he has continued to lead with composure and resolve. He has refused to be swayed by the emotional pull of political drama, focusing instead on his duty to the Filipino people.
The Emotional Side of the President: A Glimpse into His Heart
While PBBM is often seen as a composed and stoic leader, there are moments where his emotions break through. In a private ceremony in Ilocos Norte, as the family commemorated the birthday of his father, PBBM gave a short message to the attendees. A video clip of this rare moment surfaced online, showing the president, his eyes welling with tears, saying:
“Dad, I hope I’m making you proud. Every day I remember your words. And I try to lead not with anger, but with hope.”
This powerful moment, though brief, captivated the nation. It was a reminder that beneath his calm exterior, PBBM is still very much driven by love, duty, and a deep sense of honor toward his father’s legacy.
The Unseen Strength: A Lesson for All
The story of PBBM’s quiet strength is not just about politics—it is about the power of family, legacy, and the wisdom passed down from one generation to the next. It’s about understanding that leadership is not about the noise of popularity but about the quiet resolve to stand firm in the face of adversity.
For many Filipinos, PBBM’s journey is a lesson in resilience and self-belief. Whether you agree or disagree with his policies, there is no denying the strength that comes from the values instilled in him by his father and the message that continues to guide him.
A Father’s Legacy That Lives On
So, when you see PBBM smiling through the storms of controversy and criticism, know that there’s more behind that smile than meets the eye. It’s the strength of a father’s love, a message written years ago, and a belief that no matter how fierce the storm, the leader must stand firm.
As PBBM continues to face the challenges of the presidency, he carries with him a message that never fades, a message of strength, hope, and unwavering determination—one that was passed down from a father to his son, a lesson for the nation to hold dear.
