On the morning of September 14, 2016, a man’s grief-stricken cries pierced the quiet of a suburban street in Long Beach, California. Inside his home, his 36-year-old wife, Sherlene Ventanilla, and their two-month-old infant son, Shane, were found dead.

The headlines that followed would inevitably scream “murder-suicide,” a stark and brutal label for an unthinkable event. But for the husband and father left behind, Ken Ventanilla, that word was an incomplete and unjust final chapter.

He would soon embark on a courageous public mission to tell the real story behind the tragedy—a story not of a monster, but of a beloved wife and mother who was consumed by the devastating and widely misunderstood illness of postpartum depression.

To everyone who knew them, the Ventanilla family was the embodiment of a modern fairytale. Ken and Sherlene were teenage sweethearts who, after going their separate ways, found each other again in their twenties and fell deeply in love.

They were Filipino-Americans who built a beautiful life together, celebrating their shared passions for books, art, and pop culture at events like Comic-Con. On social media, Sherlene described herself as a “happy wifey and mommy,” and the photos of their growing family, including their firstborn son Vincent, radiated joy. They had just moved into a new home, their future seemingly bright and full of promise.

That perfect picture began to fracture after the birth of their second son, Shane, in the summer of 2016. Ken noticed a profound and disturbing change in his wife. The cheerful, creative “dork” he loved became withdrawn, profoundly sad, and plagued by paranoia.

Initially, Ken and his family, like many, mistook the signs for the “baby blues”—a common and usually temporary phase for new mothers. In a culture where mental health is often stigmatized or misunderstood, they didn’t recognize the true severity of her condition.

The illness was postpartum depression (PPD), a serious medical condition that can cause debilitating anxiety, hopelessness, and in rare, severe cases, psychosis. Two weeks before the tragedy, Sherlene’s condition worsened dramatically. She began openly expressing a desire to end her life.

Ken recalls a chilling morning just four days before she died, when he awoke to find her sitting at the foot of their bed, her face a mask of exhaustion. “I want to die,” she told him, before suggesting that the entire family should “jump off a cliff” together so that no one would be left behind.

Terrified, Ken immediately sought professional help, but the appointment he managed to book was still days away—a frustrating delay in a healthcare system not always equipped for immediate mental health crises.

He did everything he could, taking her to the beach and staying by her side, but her mood swings were erratic and unpredictable. A moment of seeming calm and happiness would be followed by a plunge back into deep despair.

On the night of September 13, the family decided to sleep together in the living room so Ken could keep a watchful eye on Sherlene. He woke twice during the night, seeing her awake and feeding the baby, looking exhausted but assuring him she was okay.

At 6:00 AM, he was woken by the cries of his older son, Vincent. He looked around and realized Sherlene and baby Shane were no longer in the room. He found their bedroom door locked—something she never did. Using a key to enter, he was confronted with a scene of unimaginable horror. His wife and infant son were on the bed, both victims of a violent end.

The investigation confirmed the devastating truth: Sherlene, in the grips of a severe postpartum psychotic episode, had taken her infant son’s life before taking her own. In the face of such an incomprehensible loss, Ken Ventanilla made a brave choice.

Supported by an outpouring of love from his community, he decided to speak publicly. He wanted the world to remember his wife not for her final, tragic act, but for the 99.9% of her life that was filled with love, laughter, and creativity. He shared their story to raise awareness about the devastating reality of postpartum depression, urging families, friends, and the public to take the condition seriously and to offer compassion and support to new mothers who may be suffering in silence. His mission became Sherlene’s enduring legacy—a painful story shared with the world in the hope that it might save another family from the same unimaginable heartbreak.