“I Was Tired of Pretending”—Elisse Joson Breaks Her Silence in Tears, Reveals the Heartbreaking Truth Behind Her Split with McCoy De Leon
After months of silence, rumors, and cryptic social media posts, Elisse Joson has finally spoken—and what she revealed has left fans devastated.
In an emotionally raw and unexpected interview, the actress opened up for the first time about the real reason behind her painful separation from long-time partner and father of her child, McCoy De Leon.
Her voice cracked, tears flowed, and her words carried the weight of years of emotional struggle and quiet heartbreak.
“I was tired of pretending,” Elisse admitted. “Tired of smiling when I was breaking inside.”
A Love Story That Captivated a Nation
Elisse and McCoy, often called “ElCoy” by their fans, captured the hearts of the nation with their on-and-off romance that began inside the Pinoy Big Brother house. From flirtatious glances to sweet real-life moments, theirs was a story that many rooted for.
They welcomed their daughter, Felize, in 2021, and for a while, it seemed like their love had matured into something solid and lasting.
But behind the curated Instagram feeds and red-carpet appearances, Elisse says she was living a lie.
The Emotional Interview That Shocked Everyone
During a sit-down interview with Boy Abunda aired on July 24, Elisse looked visibly fragile but determined. Dressed in a simple white blouse, she began:
“I didn’t want to talk before because I was protecting someone… protecting us. But now, I realize I also have to protect myself.”
And then, the floodgates opened.
She revealed that their relationship had been crumbling for a long time, and that there were multiple attempts to fix things—for the sake of their daughter and their fans—but none of it worked.
“There was love… but there was also pain. And eventually, the pain outweighed the love.”
Was There a Third Party?
When asked the question that everyone wanted answered—was there another woman?—Elisse paused for a long moment before replying:
“Let’s just say… I found things I wasn’t supposed to see. And when I confronted him, he made me feel like I was crazy.”
She didn’t name names, but fans immediately began speculating. Whispers about McCoy being spotted with a rising starlet had been circulating for months, though nothing was ever confirmed.
“I tried to forgive. I tried to forget. But trust, once broken, is almost impossible to rebuild,” Elisse said, tears streaming down her cheeks.
Living Under Pressure
Elisse also spoke about the immense pressure of maintaining a public relationship, especially as parents.
“People expect you to be perfect. But we’re just human. We fight. We hurt. We break. And sometimes, we don’t heal together.”
She confessed that despite attending events and posting happy photos, many moments were filled with silence, distance, and emotional disconnection.
“We were sleeping in the same bed but felt like strangers. I cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.”
For Their Daughter
The most heartbreaking part of the interview came when Elisse spoke about their daughter.
“She’s the most beautiful thing that came from our love. And that’s why I fought so hard to keep us together. But one day, I realized—a broken home is better than a home full of silent wars.”
Elisse said she made the final decision to walk away when she noticed their fights started affecting their child.
“She was only three, but I saw it in her eyes. She could feel the tension. That’s when I knew—I had to choose peace.”
McCoy’s Silence
As of press time, McCoy De Leon has not made any official statement in response to Elisse’s revelations. His social media accounts remain active, though comments on his posts have been flooded with messages ranging from support to criticism.
Some fans called for understanding:
“We don’t know his side yet. Let’s be fair.”
Others were less forgiving:
“She gave you everything, and you threw it away. Shame on you, McCoy.”
Rumors are now swirling that McCoy may release a counter-statement or even sit down for his own tell-all interview—but nothing has been confirmed.
Netizens React: Mixed Emotions Everywhere
The internet exploded with reactions. #WeStandWithElisse and #ProtectFelize quickly trended on X (formerly Twitter), with fans, influencers, and fellow celebrities chiming in.
“I cried watching her interview. No woman deserves that.”
“Heartbreaking but empowering. Elisse, thank you for speaking up.”
“We all thought ElCoy was endgame. This hurts.”
“Sending love and light to Felize. She deserves a happy, peaceful home.”
Celebrities Voice Their Support
Several showbiz friends showed public support for Elisse after the interview aired.
Liza Soberano posted on Instagram Stories:
“Love should never hurt. Proud of you, Elisse.”
Bea Alonzo tweeted:
“Strength is walking away when love turns into pain. Respect.”
Even Karla Estrada, known for her candid opinions, commented:
“Sometimes, a woman needs to break her silence to find her peace. I felt her pain. Nakakaiyak.”
What’s Next for Elisse?
Despite the heartbreak, Elisse is focusing on healing and moving forward. She announced plans to release a vlog series documenting her journey as a solo parent, with the goal of empowering other single mothers to embrace their worth.
“This isn’t the end of my story. It’s the beginning of me finally choosing myself.”
She also teased an upcoming TV series role, saying that “working again feels like breathing after drowning.”
Final Thoughts: A Wake-Up Call
Elisse Joson’s emotional confession wasn’t just a celebrity heartbreak story—it was a wake-up call to anyone who’s ever stayed in a relationship out of fear, obligation, or the need to “keep it together for the kids.”
“To anyone out there hurting in silence—please know, you’re not alone. You deserve peace. You deserve honesty. You deserve love that doesn’t break you.”
In the end, Elisse didn’t just speak her truth. She reclaimed her power.
And that’s the most beautiful part of her story yet.
