Jackie Forster recalls how difficult it was for her to be a mother at 16.
She says, “I wasn’t sure who I was. Parang ang tagal before I kind of found my footing.”
Jackie makes the revelation during her guest appearance in Mafae Management’s In Love With Me series on Facebook June 23, 2020.
Mafae Management is a company founded by former beauty queen-turned-motivational speaker Mafae Yunon-Belasco.
The In Love With Me series features empowered individuals and their stories.
Jackie’s story began when she was 12, a newbie in the fashion industry.
She relates, “My aunt, my mom’s sister, was a model in the Philippines. I looked up to her. When I was about 12, I just wanted to get into modeling, I thought I wanted to perform.”
Her aunt had connections in the business, and this led to Jackie getting her first modeling gig.
Jackie continues, “As a young girl, you don’t know your power. I started at 12, and I also started a family at a young age. At 16.
“So, it was only like four years when I got to work and learn a little bit more about life until I was thrown into motherhood.”
At the time, Jackie was living in with basketball star-turned-comedian Benjie Paras, who was 10 years her senior.
They had two sons: Andre and Kobe Paras.
From the moment Jackie and Benjie got together, she says they faced one problem after another.
In Jackie’s Instagram post dated February 21, 2015, she tells her side of the story.
At 16, Jackie gave birth to Andre in the United States.
At 19, she had Kobe, and then she learned that Benjie had a child with another woman.
A part of her long 2015 caption reads, “He would oftentimes go missing and would turn off his cellphone so he was unreachable.”
Jackie was 21 when she and Benjie separated, which led to her estrangement from her two sons.
She says in her interview with Mafae Management that, at that age, “Most women, most young ladies are barely getting out of college, they are barely starting to date, they are barely starting to understand the world and their bodies and all these things.”
She remembers feeling adrift and confused at that age, “And here I am. I’m a mother, I’m separated, and I’m unemployed.
“I had my separation, and then I started having an identity crisis. I wasn’t sure what I was doing in my life.”
In her Instagram post, Jackie mentions that she and Benjie were married in December 1994.
But Jackie also sees this period in her life as a turning point.
“It’s really through experiences and circumstances where you kind understand what kind of powers we have. And those powers can make us or break us. It’s really just black and white.
“It’s only when I started experiencing problems that I really understood that I have control over this, you know?”
She admits it took her a long time to process what she was going through and learn how to rebuild her life.
“It was problem after problem after problem after problem.
“And when you choose to get back up, when you choose to face it, when you choose to understand it and accept it, that’s the only time…
“The mistakes are the biggest ones for me because they teach you the most.”
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